LPT: Don't try to force yourself to stop loving your ex or unrequited crush to get over them. Instead, try accepting the fact that you may always feel some degree of love for them, but you are capable of loving someone else just as much, or even more.

We're spoonfed since childhood the idea that there is "the one" out there. And this is the person were destined to be with...Who we will love more than anyone else on the plwnet.. The biggest thing that stings in an abruptly ended relationship, or unrequited love situations, is the deep down fear that we may never have those same feelings for anyone again. That we lost "the one".

So many people wallow in the misery and pain while trying to force themselves to stop loving this person who meant so much to them. We try to wait it out, and wonder when then pain will stop.

Its important to remind yourself that "the one" is bullshit. There are billions of people on this planet. Love is just a powerful emotion, and youre perfectly capable of feeling that emotion towards more than one person in your life.

You may never stop feeling love towards that person ever. You might always get a smile when you think of them.

You don't have to forget about them or try to undue your feelings. The best way to get over someone is to accept they will always have a place in your heart/life. But also accept you are capable of loving other people just as much.

You won't be fully over them, but it will sting a lot less, and eventually the pain fades away.

Edit I'm aware this is another one of those BS LPTs everyone hates on. Its helped me though and don't really know of a more fitting place to put it.

LPT: Don't try to force yourself to stop loving your ex or unrequited crush to get over them. Instead, try accepting the fact that you may always feel some degree of love for them, but you are capable of loving someone else just as much, or even more. LPT: Don't try to force yourself to stop loving your ex or unrequited crush to get over them. Instead, try accepting the fact that you may always feel some degree of love for them, but you are capable of loving someone else just as much, or even more. Reviewed by Unknown on 11:34 Rating: 5
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